If you have ever been interested in seducing women, then this FAQ might help you start understanding the inner psychology of women and the real way to seduce them. Let's start with the basics.
This is a question that comes up very often. Unfortunately, it's not always possible to know for sure whether a girl has friendzoned you or not. There are, however, some signs which might help you know.
There might be more signs, but for now these should suffice.
In my opinion, the best place to pick up women is not in the library, the gym or any other "neutral" place. Despite what most gurus say, the best place to pick up women is somewhere where women expect to be hit on. Examples? Bars, nightclubs, concerts and so on. If you go there early, it's especially easy because their defence mechanism will be very low. If you go to a nightclub very late after everyone is drunk and most girls have been hit on several times, then you're going to be rejected. Hard.
There are obviously other great places. Another place I really recommend is your house. Yes, I'm serious. Throw a party or any other kind of event and you will be surprised how receptive women are to your advances when they are in your territory.
There are actually many line of thoughts on this particular question. Most pick-up gurus agree that speed is extremely important. If you hesitate for more than a few seconds, chances are that the woman will think that you're shy and therefore unworthy.
The men who are most successful with women are those who never give up and always approach women as quickly as possible. You obviously must know what to say once you approach, but if you just focus on the approach you will be greatly successful.
There are actually many ways. Although there are some naturals out there who don't really require mentoring, if you have always struggled with picking up women I recommend that you start from the very beginning and that you find a good mentor. There are many programs on the internet such as The Tao of Badass.
Josh Pellicer, Mystery, Style and David DeAngelo are widely considered to be the top pick-up gurus in the world. If you want more information about each one of them and how they can transform your life, start by Googling their names. The book that I recommend the most is The Game by Neil Strauss (AKA Style). Through a very interesting narration, he will offer you with the tools that you need to be successful at picking up women.
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Written by: Joaquin de la Sierra
